Painful Sexual Intercourse..............Dysparaunia
Sex is meant to be enjoyed! it's not much fun having pain during intercourse. Sex is meant to be an enjoyable and pleasant experience but a lot of women experience sexual pain...Fortunately, the trouble will often be resolved if the man takes more time with love play so the woman's vagina relaxes and her natural lubricant flows .
You can safely disregard one isolated episode of pain during sex. After all it is easy to feel pain when a sensitive part of you is been prodded quite too hard. But if the pain keeps on coming, then you shouldn't feel you must put up with it,get something done to improve things.....
How? Visit your doctor and seek counselling. Sometimes simple advice about sexual positioning can help....
Emotional Factor...........
If you experience pain during sex,it's almost certain to be distressing for you. This distress may well make you tighten up down below and this tightening up will very likely make the pain worse next time. Unfortunately, painful sexual intercourse can often have a destructive emotional effect on a relationship. Sometimes couples split up because of it...
What are the causes..........
There are a dozen possible causes of dysparaunia. Fortunately, many of them are not too serious but a few of them are.
Ideally, the assessment should be done by a doctor who is skilled in the technique of vaginal examination. One of the first things to establish is : Is the pain deep inside you? or is it superficial?
This may not be easy for you to say because sometimes the pain is both superficial and deep but deciding which it is can help sort out what is wrong......
Some of the causes includes:
Vaginismus.......
Vaginismus can be superficial and deep. It is a common cause of trouble during sex. It is the spasm of vagina muscles caused mainly by fear of being hurt. This spasm is often so painful that intercourse is impossible- sometimes for years...
Some women with vaginismus have never been able to have full sex or even use tampons. They also tend to be very fearful of vaginal examinations and may never go for a smear test.
Vaginismus arouses strong emotions and women who have it are often very angry with their partners ,doctors and themselves but the condition is one one's fault...
Common causes include......
- A restrictive upbringing in which the woman was brought up to view sex as nasty or dirty.
- An upbringing in which the woman was given the idea that the vagina is very narrow and so sex must be very painful.
- A history of rape or childhood sexual abuse. Experiences like these understandably make women fearful of sex and of being hurt.
- A medical history of painful vaginal infections.
- Unease with the partner- perhaps at an unconscious level
It is a common misconception that women with vaginismus dislike sex altogether. In fact many women with this condition enjoy closeness with their partners. Many get great pleasure from foreplay and may even reach orgasm but this ceases once penetration is attempted or suggested.
Doctors who have been trained in Psychosexual medicine have by far the greatest experience in treating vaginismus.....
Contact one if you seem to suffer from this condition..........
..............to be continued!
Living Healthy!!!!!!!!!!!!
You can safely disregard one isolated episode of pain during sex. After all it is easy to feel pain when a sensitive part of you is been prodded quite too hard. But if the pain keeps on coming, then you shouldn't feel you must put up with it,get something done to improve things.....
How? Visit your doctor and seek counselling. Sometimes simple advice about sexual positioning can help....
Emotional Factor...........
If you experience pain during sex,it's almost certain to be distressing for you. This distress may well make you tighten up down below and this tightening up will very likely make the pain worse next time. Unfortunately, painful sexual intercourse can often have a destructive emotional effect on a relationship. Sometimes couples split up because of it...
What are the causes..........
There are a dozen possible causes of dysparaunia. Fortunately, many of them are not too serious but a few of them are.
Ideally, the assessment should be done by a doctor who is skilled in the technique of vaginal examination. One of the first things to establish is : Is the pain deep inside you? or is it superficial?
This may not be easy for you to say because sometimes the pain is both superficial and deep but deciding which it is can help sort out what is wrong......
Some of the causes includes:
Vaginismus.......
Vaginismus can be superficial and deep. It is a common cause of trouble during sex. It is the spasm of vagina muscles caused mainly by fear of being hurt. This spasm is often so painful that intercourse is impossible- sometimes for years...
Some women with vaginismus have never been able to have full sex or even use tampons. They also tend to be very fearful of vaginal examinations and may never go for a smear test.
Vaginismus arouses strong emotions and women who have it are often very angry with their partners ,doctors and themselves but the condition is one one's fault...
Common causes include......
- A restrictive upbringing in which the woman was brought up to view sex as nasty or dirty.
- An upbringing in which the woman was given the idea that the vagina is very narrow and so sex must be very painful.
- A history of rape or childhood sexual abuse. Experiences like these understandably make women fearful of sex and of being hurt.
- A medical history of painful vaginal infections.
- Unease with the partner- perhaps at an unconscious level
It is a common misconception that women with vaginismus dislike sex altogether. In fact many women with this condition enjoy closeness with their partners. Many get great pleasure from foreplay and may even reach orgasm but this ceases once penetration is attempted or suggested.
Doctors who have been trained in Psychosexual medicine have by far the greatest experience in treating vaginismus.....
Contact one if you seem to suffer from this condition..........
..............to be continued!
Living Healthy!!!!!!!!!!!!
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