This is Nicki Cripses !!!!!!! Welcome to Lifestyle Ripples..........

Hello everyone.. We can not deny the fuss these days about getting married.. I have only been married for a little over a year but long enough to know that there are keys that unlock healthy relationships which eventually leads to a healthy marriage.  Getting married is one of the biggest decision you would ever make and so you might have to really choose wisely... Some people base their relationships on lies and deceits  and I keep wondering what good would ever come out of such relationships... You must remember that you are completely entrusting your entire life to this one person.. You must take your time ! You hear some couples say they wish they had waited a little longer.. A much older aunt of mine once said these words to me... and only recently upon joining an amazing book club..I read a book by Mike Mudrock on recognizing the spouse meant for you and it was an eye opener! Just before you take that huge step ...let's discus...

Hey Loves .. I'll be blogging on Moneytrimony! If there was ever a word like that.... lol I once had a chat with a man who told me how much he honored his wife of  over 5 years.. I kept asking why he did and he said.. '' She would always hand over her  finance to  me at the end of the month after taking out her tithe...She is so Loyal! '' Sounds pretty cool to me but what happens when you married to a man who has no regards for your loyalty? I've heard ladies say regarding their husband.... '' Hand over my finance ke? So he will spend it on other ladies? '' I'll rather save the money for my kids...'' Yeah! Now we can as well refer back to the ripple effect of not raising sound-minded kids! Else why would a sound-minded man repay a woman's loyalty with distrust?  Managing your finances as a couple is paramount to a healthy marriage as this is a major cause of rifts in most homes. Money can ruin your marriage if not...