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Compulsive lying Disorder..

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   I'll be blogging about a condition that describes someone to be a pathological liar. We all have that one friend who does nothing but tell lies. Sadly for some of these people, it's not intentional while for others it is. Just before you walk away from such a pal, i would want to ask if you've ever considered the fact that they may be suffering from a disorder... Compulsive liars find comfort in lying as they tend to do this with so much ease even when the truth is staring right back at them. People with this attitude have a personality disorder and are in dire need of help although most times they do not see the need to get help. What would you do if someone around you was a pathological liar? Would you stop hanging out with them? or would you try to reform the person by talking it out with them? or would you simply live on with the person knowing that every word that ever proceeded from their mouth were all lies? I have had friends who never told the truth for once...

Moneytrimony!

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Hey Loves .. I'll be blogging on Moneytrimony! If there was ever a word like that.... lol I once had a chat with a man who told me how much he honored his wife of  over 5 years.. I kept asking why he did and he said.. '' She would always hand over her  finance to  me at the end of the month after taking out her tithe...She is so Loyal! '' Sounds pretty cool to me but what happens when you married to a man who has no regards for your loyalty? I've heard ladies say regarding their husband.... '' Hand over my finance ke? So he will spend it on other ladies? '' I'll rather save the money for my kids...'' Yeah! Now we can as well refer back to the ripple effect of not raising sound-minded kids! Else why would a sound-minded man repay a woman's loyalty with distrust?  Managing your finances as a couple is paramount to a healthy marriage as this is a major cause of rifts in most homes. Money can ruin your marriage if not...

Staying Married....

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´ Everyday I log on to surf the web and come across creepy headlines about marriages that had turned sour.... I can't help but wonder why and this got me thinking.... Wait a minute! These people were once in love..so deep that they considered a lifetime together..So the question is what went wrong? The clothes..the vendors...the crowd-filled rooms ... guests calling in per sec.... It's a major fuss these days about getting married. The days of  preparation for the D- day is always filled with laughter and loads of happiness...irrespective of the challenges some couples face as they look forward to tying the knot, the butterfly feeling never really disperses.  We all look forward to the wedding but are never really prepared and equipped for the journey ahead.  After the lovely music serenade, dance, colorful clothing and awesome gifts...then the silence creeps in.. Everyone goes back home and you left with HIM''. Then he starts to hit you.... The black e...

IN A RELATIONSHIP? WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO GET A BLOOD TEST

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Hey guys, so I've been thinking of this particular issue and thought to share on my blog. I came across a lovely couple who have been in a relationship for years and are so in love with each other that they could barely take their hands off each other. Love for me is a beautiful thing and I love to see couples in love.... Now they both so heartbroken and have no idea what to do about this very dicey situation. Should they go on? should they stay apart? She's gone ahead to change her relationship status to '' its complicated'' and so has he... Shawn and Debbra have been together for so many years. She's literally stayed by his  side through thick and thin.... A virtuous woman in every sense. He was so proud of her and thought  it was due time to get hitched with the woman of his dreams... Of course she was that woman in every sense... They get themselves checked in preparation for their lives together only to find out that they has incompatibl...