IN A RELATIONSHIP? WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO GET A BLOOD TEST

Hey guys, so I've been thinking of this particular issue and thought to share on my blog. I came across a lovely couple who have been in a relationship for years and are so in love with each other that they could barely take their hands off each other.
Love for me is a beautiful thing and I love to see couples in love....
Now they both so heartbroken and have no idea what to do about this very dicey situation. Should they go on? should they stay apart? She's gone ahead to change her relationship status to '' its complicated'' and so has he...

Shawn and Debbra have been together for so many years. She's literally stayed by his  side through thick and thin.... A virtuous woman in every sense. He was so proud of her and thought  it was due time to get hitched with the woman of his dreams... Of course she was that woman in every sense...

They get themselves checked in preparation for their lives together only to find out that they has incompatible genotypes..Heartbreaking*
They are so torn right now and have no idea what to do... Its been so many years of building and nurturing and they thinking... How can it all go away just like that?

I'm particularly heartbroken about this but then again I'm wondering... When is the right time to get tested? When is the right time to inquire the genotype from someone you in a relationship with?
Some couples get lucky cos they never asked these questions or bothered finding out but they have healthy kids... while some couples got caught in the web as they only realized their incompatibility when the kids were born..

Should these questions be asked immediately you realize you in love? Would it seem rude to ask these questions at such time? OR would you rather take a chance with love and inquire when you both finally decide to tie the knot?

As a parent when is the right time to teach your kids these very crucial issue of life? Or would you rather wait till they grown and able to know these things for themselves?

In my opinion I would sternly advise that intending couples should know their own genotypes as well as those of their partners at the early stages of their relationships before they fall deep head over heels in love with each other. 
Emotions are so powerful and coupled with the years spent together, these could cloud the individual's decision and right judgement causing intending couples to damn all consequences, resisting every urge to break-up. They could end up giving birth to sick children thus spending their entire lives in torture, pain and loads of heartbreaking moments.

Now I sit here wondering....... what would Shawn and Debbra would do..?


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