Revenge...


She feels mistreated...'I can't believe you did this to me'... Now she plots a payback! He has to pay for what he did to me. On one hand she has a point! She's pained! He has hurt her deep..but on the other hand....'Is it worth the payback?'
Everybody has problems, everybody has the bad times! Do we sacrifice all the good times because of them?
The best revenge is just moving on and getting over it. Don't give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer. 
How do you start the next chapter of your life when all you do is read through the last chapters continuously?
Over the weekend, i heard some really troubling stories of ladies who have gone through one form of heartbreak or another and this for me was quiet depressing. 

To the lady who has suffered a heartbreak...let him go! Let her keep him! Real Men never get stolen...
Look good! Dress your best! Eat Healthy...Let your skin glow...
Get a pedicure....a body massage and some good sleep! you'll be just fine!
They may not remember what you said, they may not remember what you did but one thing is certain..they will never forget the way you made them feel.

To those of us who have been wronged in so many ways and are actually considering a payback, I would want you to remember that by taking revenge, a man is but even with his enemy but by passing over it, he is superior!

May we not succumb to thoughts of violence and revenge today, but rather to thoughts of mercy and compassion. We are to love our enemies that they might be returned to their right minds. - Marianne Williamson

Love you *winks*

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