Domestic Violence...........GET OUT NOW!!

''He was quiet and loving! His friends were less than a handful, He was always home. Everywhere I went, he always wanted to be there. I felt loved...It slowly turned to jealousy. Now he hits me at every insecure feeling. He hits me without asking questions...Then there's the tearful apology and awesome makeup sex that would always leave me feeling so special...I loved every moment! We got married and this continued... I kept no male friends and signing up on any of the social network sites was forbidden. I still felt loved because.... he wasn't cheating on me. On this fateful day, he hit me so hard....I lost my life in the process.... I didn't live long enough to experience the tearful apology and awesome makeup sex I loved!''

 To hell with the awesome makeup sex and tearful apologies!!

 Thousands of women all over the world are stuck in abusive marriages. Some do not live long enough to tell their story. The question still remains.. Who is to blame? 

 The tradition that sees a woman seeking divorce as an infidel? or as one who lacks the virtue called patience which her mother/grandmother possessed? is pathetic! 

 Real Men don't hit Women... She's in no way your match, why hit her.? Talking to a couple of guys on domestic violence, they attribute the violent attitude of these men who hit their wives on disrespect, lousiness, laziness and anger on the part of the woman.. Irrespective of the excuses most guys give, you are more a man when you learn to patiently accommodate a woman's flaws and walk away.

 The children are not left out in this as they suffer psychological  trauma. Their productivity level drops in school and unknown to the parents these children slowly tend towards an unpalatable future.
As a battering father, you must understand that every abuse affects each relationship in the family thus your children's emotional recovery is inextricably linked to the healing and empowerment of their mother.

 Quitting hitting her! You wound her soul continually...
You slowly destroying the future of your kids..and making them hardened..they'll hate you forever!

 Lady,
You can choose to leave an abusive home! You do not have to stay! Your kids need you alive! Ignore the world and what they think about your decision as these same people will mourn at your graveside, should you lose your life and blame you for not getting out!

 Every Lady deserves to be pampered and treated like a Queen! 
Love you *winks*

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