Finding the Perfect Partner...

We all have the ideal partners sketched out in our heads. Some of us have a list of ''must have traits'' we hope to see in the person. 
To begin your quest to finding the right partner, you must ask yourself if you are good enough.
We must be committed to our own personal growth before focusing on that of our spouses. We must be interested in learning how to become a better person and partner by been fully aware of our own emotional baggage and weaknesses. Setting personal goals for self improvement should be taken very seriously.

 I have always had troubles understanding relationships these days. You break up with the guy this minute and end up in another relationship in no time. Moving through relationships till we find the perfect match is outrageous.. I'm not a great fan.
Analyzing ourselves and previous relationships if taken seriously should serve as a template on which our new relationships should be built on. Do not overlook compatibility issues in order to just be ''in a relationship''. In order words, do not ignore warning signs of a potential problems brewing and waiting to occur.
Evaluate your core value system and find out if they mesh with your partners. These values are important to you and as such if you and your partner do not share the same views be sure to experience several arguments.

 Stay Patient, Do not be in a rush...Know your own values, wants and needs before you enter a relationship. Take your time getting to know your partners personality, history, values and ideal to evaluate if this would be a quality relationship.

 Don't lose yourself trying to hold on to someone who doesn't care about losing you! Use your Head...

 *winks*

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